September Recap

September has come and gone, and I still have more to say about it. So here's a bits-and-pieces recap . . .

My 10-month-old baby is no more. How short a month is, and how much she changes and grows.

I've been meaning to do an update on Clara for several months now. I think I have at least three or four to catch up on! Hopefully before she turns one I'll manage to write about her doings and sayings (yes, meaningful sounds/words now!). She is so cute and such fun, as you can see from the photo above.

Over Labor Day weekend we braved the traffic (and were stuck in it, both up the mountain and down) to go to Flagstaff. Everyone enjoyed seeing the grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins! We celebrated Emily's birthday and scouted out Seven West, the area Jeremy is assigned for elk hunting (on the border between the Coconino and Kaibab forests).

Grandma and the girls exploring

The view

Hiking with Grandma

Look! A fun ditch!

 

Scott taking aim

Lauren the sharpshooter

Dortha surprised herself by enjoying it!

Back at home, the kids have become obsessed with drawing. I don't object! (The only downside is the piles of treasured masterpieces that no one wants thrown away. I have to do the dirty duty at night after bedtime . . . and Lydia is still mourning and looking for her "picnic" that she drew on a piece of blue construction paper about six weeks ago.)

Abby drew mountains and then realized horizontal lines made them into A's!

Josiah especially has honed his skills in the last couple months. He loves drawing battle scenes, of course. As you can see from the pictures below, in early September his people were heads with arms and legs protruding. Since then he has progressed to more realistic-looking stick people, often accessorized with backpacks, hats, swords, bows, etc.

The extra protrusions from the arms are weapons--swords, mostly; 

one guy here is in jail (see the bars?)

Here you see some landscape elements: mountains with snow, sun, little hovel/house

I believe that's a bridge spanning the mountaintops. The guy below is in jail.

Some guys here have axes, not just stick-swords . . . (I drew the knight)

 

The girls like to attempt to copy Josiah, but they haven't his battle-focused imagination, skill, or patience yet. They often draw meandering shapes and lines and then add faces: "Look, Mama! I made a Llama!" Abby told me after adding eyes, eyebrows, nose, and mouth to a shape (not pictured, sorry).

Some people floating around . . .

 

When they do take the time to make a character, some turn out pretty well, as you can see from Lydia's drawings below:

"Pa in Flagstaff" by Lydia (later she added a mustache)

"Grandma in Flagstaff" by Lydia

The artist herself with her portrait of Pa

My mom came for a short visit before she flew back to Dubai. She helped me get organized enough to start school with the kids after she left, for which I'm very thankful! Of course, she obliged the kids with lots of games--the "little lamb game" and the rabbit game (accompanied by the "In a cabin in the woods" song) were popular. She snuggled with the kids early in the morning, did laundry, babysat so I could run errands, let Jer and me go on a date . . . lots of good grandma stuff. :)

 

Outtake photo . . . Clara was done!

September here is usually quite hot still--thus all the indoor activity (drawing)--although we had a somewhat milder September this year, I think. The mosquitoes have been so bad in the back yard that outside play time was often abbreviated. But irrigation is irresistible! Josiah, Lydia, and Abby love playing in the water and in the aftermath of mud.

Lydia on the left, Abby on the right

Abby

Lydia

Josiah hosing down

Clara longs to be a big kid and join in their games. Every time they run out back and leave the door ajar, she tries to escape. She doesn't like crawling on the grass much (she does a funny crab crawl on hands and feet--keeping her knees off it), she does love to be pushed around in the coupe car! Josiah, Lydia, and Abby vie for turns pushing her . . . but they're speed-demons!

What would a month be around here without some sort of injury? Abby fell when balanced precariously to pick flowers. She smashed her face into a table. Thankfully the wound was below her eye! The bruising spread to her eye, though, and looked pretty bad for about a week.

Josiah always wants to play war games with PVC pipes outside

The girls long ago mastered the balance bikes Grandma and Pa gave them for the second birthday. They whiz around on those little bikes with superb balance and steering. Lydia developed an interest in Josiah's old blue bike, and she practiced pedaling around the yard. Abby tried it out, too.

One evening at the park, Jer decided on a whim to remove the training wheels and see if the girls could combine their balance skills with their newfound pedaling ability. Sure enough, they could! Lydia was initially more confident than Abby . . .

Lydia

Abby tries Josiah's bigger bike

After that initial foray into riding a two-wheeler, we found two more "bigger" bikes at Goodwill and on craigslist. So Josiah has a "new" green bike, and the girls use his old red one and the "new" pink one Jer found. They're doing so well riding--they've taken some falls, but nothing too terrible, and they're quite confident now. They have yet to learn to start by themselves, though, so the process is still dad-intensive.

Clara loved the swings at the park!

Bathtime got crazier in September when we added Clara into the mix! She loves being part of the crew in the tub . . .

Grandma and Kezzie came down for a few hours one Monday in September! Anna had a meeting here in Phoenix, so Dortha drove with her and did her conference calls from our house. The kids were thrilled to have Kezzie here! And Grandma got to spend some time with them when she finished her work. Here she has them enraptured with a book!

Can there be too many pictures of Clara? I think not. She took her first steps in September. She loves to cruise along the furniture and walls and is tentatively stepping from one object to another, though she can't take more than two or three steps before falling. She loves to be with me in the kitchen when I'm cooking. She pulls out the mixing bowls and metal lids to make lots of noise, and she pulls all the kitchen towels off the oven handle. We love this happy sweetie!

So--there's a little hop through some of our September!

Kindergarten!

We started this year's homeschooling on September 12th. Last year's pre-school was laissez-faire, mostly reading Sonlight's Pre-K 4/5 book list and memorizing catechism questions and answers. This year we're going about schooling a little more seriously: I have some concrete academic goals, we do at least some schoolwork daily, and we're adding more subjects.

But this doesn't mean I force the kids to spend the day seated, workbook in hand! On the contrary, I want them to have lots of time to play, especially outdoors. I've read lots about the negative impact of pushing academics too early, of forcing little boys to read too soon, etc. So this year is primarily about establishing some good habits; feeding the children's curiosity about the world; cultivating a love of learning; and furnishing their minds with interesting and beautiful words and ideas. How's that for high aims?

We do plenty of this on school days!

When she was here a few weeks ago, my mom gave me a blessed few hours to read and prepare all by myself. I took my Bible and Ruth Beechick's The Three R's and Language and Thinking for Young Children over to the library. These gave me the proverbial kick in the backside I needed to get over my perfectionism and just plan, schedule, and do--especially daily math activities.

Beechick is clear, down-to-earth, inspiring, practical, and empowering. I won't follow every idea she proffers, but I do appreciate her emphasis on my ability to teach my children lots without relying on formal curriculum. Despite being homeschooled myself, I felt a bit lost in the sea of good choices. There is so much I could be doing with the kids, so much they could be learning! Beechick's books helped me set some goals and figure out ways to meet them without overloading myself or the children. 

While this is technically Josiah's kindergarten year, and my goals are for him to learn certain concepts, the girls are eager to be part of everything, so they may end up about where he is academically. 

Abby

So what are we doing this year? 

1. Sonlight Core A - We found this discounted on eBay last year, when we were doing Sonlight's Pre-K 4/5. It's an introduction to "world cultures," primarily through read-alouds. The Egemeier's Bible Story Book is a step up in depth and difficulty from last year's simple, one-page summary stories. It's closer to scripture and lengthier, but the children love it and ask me to keep reading more each morning! 

I like Sonlight's use of Usborne books--Living Long Ago and The Usborne Children's Encyclopedia have captured the children's interest. So far we've read about the beginning of civilization, ancient Egypt, ancient Greece, and a bit about ancient Rome. (This is a broad introduction to world cultures--we're not going very deep yet!) Last night as we drove somewhere, Josiah told Jeremy, "The Egyptians shaved off one of their eyebrows when their cats died!" Apparently even the little details have stuck with him from these books!

The "fun" read-alouds are mostly chapter books, but the girls seem to handle them just fine. They loved The Boxcar Children, though I think Sonlight should switch it out for a better-quality book. Jeremy took on some of the reading as bedtime stories. He read them My Father's Dragon (a re-read for us) and is currently doing James Herriot's Treasury for Children. 

All of us enjoy Sonlight's selection of poetry! We're reading Mary Ann Hoberman's collection of poems The Llama Who Had No Pajama (that title poem Abby begs me to read every single day) and Arnold Lobel's Book of Mother Goose. What fun!

Josiah checks out a poetry book

2. Scripture and poetry memorization - We finished up Psalm 1 last week. I had the kids "present" it one at a time to the rest of us as audience--they were so cute! Now we're beginning 1 Cor. 13:4-8. Then I hope to do another psalm and probably Luke 2 near Christmastime. I haven't planned for the winter/spring yet.

The children can almost recite Christina Rosetti's "Who has seen the wind." Maybe we'll do Joyce Kilmer's "Trees" next--but I'm not sure.

Josiah and Lydia

3. Math - I looked over my mom's old Saxon 1 teacher's manual and nixed it for this year. Josiah needs a better grasp of counting, comparing, grouping, measuring, etc. before we launch into that, if we decide to use it. So for now I'm making up math curriculum as we go, based on Ruth Beechick's summary of first grade math skills. A friend gave me a bunch of colored plastic frogs to use as counting manipulatives. They've worked nicely in lots of homemade games to reinforce counting and work on some basic addition and subtraction. (Josiah always claims the green ones.) 

Lydia counting frogs

 Josiah likes to play "battle" between different colors of frogs

I purchased a set of dominoes on eBay, and I think they'll be worthwhile! Even with our short use of them, the kids can identify numbers of dots quickly and do some easy addition without really thinking.

We found pattern blocks at Goodwill awhile ago, and I found a book of pattern block puzzles on eBay, so we'll use those some, too. Our initial foray into the puzzle book proved more difficult than I anticipated. But I think the pattern blocks will add variety to our math activities and help teach shapes, even if the kids can't complete all the puzzles yet. 

Abby

Ruth Beechick emphasizes the importance of everyday activities in teaching a child math. I'm working to be more intentional about this: allowing a child to divvy up apple slices or cashews for snacks, letting everyone measure ingredients when baking, counting how many plates we need to set the table, etc. 

4. Reading - We haven't started this yet, but I plan to begin Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons with Josiah sometime in the next couple weeks. This instruction I'll probably limit to him for now, taking about 15-20 minutes a day and seeing how he does. We can stop if it's frustrating him or clearly beyond him.

I am working on letter/sound recognition with all three of them, and I'm using the Developing the Early Learner set of workbooks (quite different from your typical workbook). So the girls are getting some pre-reading instruction. They're eager to identify letter sounds and write their own names. They've been regularly asking me what various words would sound like if they began with a different letter. Lately they've latched onto "Peter Pan" as their key word: "Mama, what if it started with Z?" "Zeter Zan," I respond, and they giggle and repeat it. Now they'll say iterations of it to each other and laugh.

5. Botany - I bought A Beka's flower identification cards to teach some basic parts and names of flowers. I hope to do some "nature walks" a la Charlotte Mason when the weather cools off enough. 

6. Chores - When better to work at habit training than when they're still little and academics aren't much of a concern? I want to get a good handle on regular chores this year. Currently I have a breakfast helper, a housekeeping helper, and a dinner helper, each with specific jobs. Each child will keep that particular helper job for a week, and then switch. The girls are much more eager to help with chores than Josiah is! They often ask, "What else can I do, Mama?" Lydia even begged Abby to let her help with Abby's chore of emptying the small trash cans the other day.

Lydia

7. Manners - How to teach a plethora of mealtime niceties and polite societal conventions when some days all I seem to do is mediate one brawl after another? I want manner training to be positive vs. negative (encouraging and fun vs. lots of "don't do that"). I have yet to formulate a good plan for this.

8. Art and Music - I liked Sonlight's A Child's Book of Art in the pre-k curriculum, and I might use that again for some basic art appreciation. I plan to do some art projects scattered throughout the year (a daunting prospect for me . . . oh, the mess!), and I'd like to do some basic drawing instruction. All three have developed a real interest in drawing, especially Josiah, who spends hours on his detailed pictures, which are typically either Star Wars or Robin Hood themed.

I hope to find a good and reasonably priced Suzuki teacher with whom to start piano lessons. So far I haven't had much luck. 

I'd also like to do some music activities at home. We have a box of scarves, sticks, egg shakers, bells, etc., so ideally we could use those and learn some folk songs or work on rhythm with our Music Together CDs, Wee Sing books, and others. We sing before each meal, and I'm using that time to introduce new hymns. 

9. Extras - Josiah, Lydia, and Abby started swimming lessons in July, and we picked back up with them a couple weeks ago. Lydia especially really took off with her water skills--she seemed entirely fearless this summer and eager to dive deeper and swim further on her own. She regressed a little during our break and was fearful on our first swim lesson in September. But she seems to have recovered her confidence. "I'll be brave, Mama!" she tells me. And now she aims to be a swim teacher when she grows up. 

Abby started saying she didn't want to do swim lessons anymore while we were on vacation in August. This aversion turned into hours of wailing and passionate declarations of "I won't go! I wanna stay home and sleep! My belly hurts! I'm tired! I won't buckle my seat belt! I won't get out of the car!" on the day of our first swim lesson after the break. She got through it, but not without tears and some tantrums. 

I dreaded the next one, and sure enough, she launched into the whole shebang again. Thankfully--and in answer to prayer--the lesson ended happily! Even though she spent about 20 minutes of it crying on the teacher's back and resisting each activity, she cheered up and even jumped in by herself (no hand-holding) a couple times by the end. Hopefully we can finish out the next few (we'll end in mid-October when it gets too cold) with minimal resistance!

Josiah started speech therapy in July and will continue that indefinitely. He's reached the therapist's goals for saying "g" and "k" sounds correctly about 80% of the time, mostly without prompting. Now we're working on "s," "y," and final "r." 

That about sums it up for now! I wonder what I'll think of my plans and goals come May?