Sunday, March 21, 2021

A Whole Year (and More) with Our Birdie Girl

Bridget turned one two months ago! Obviously I'm terribly behind in posting about her milestones--the neglected records of the fifth child.


What a vivacious, busy, intense, funny, entertaining sweetheart she is! She daily makes us laugh with her antics and swoon with her endearing ways. I love having big kids with whom to share the joys of having a baby. They also help mind her when I need to cook! While not entirely reliable (sometimes distracted, sometimes too overbearing, sometimes tempted to bug), the big girls and Josiah mostly do well keeping Bridget safe and happy outdoors. I don't entrust Bridget to Clara's care in the same way, but Clara is a huge help with Bridget and plays with her so nicely. Bridget loves when Clara pretends to be a puppy and "fetches" things for Bridget. For a while, every morning when Clara came out of her room (Bridget having gotten up with me before everyone else), Bridget toddled over to give her a hug--and Clara was the first person Bridget truly hugged. Then she wanted to take Clara's hands and play a game in which she and Clara made the kitchen-dining-living room-hallway circuit over and over. They play in the mud kitchen together (which sometimes results in Bridget being coated with mud, but it's usually worth it).


Jeremy calls Bridget "the screecher," and she certainly can holler. She continues to be an intense baby: intensely happy--with a contagious smile and mischievous streak (she can't resist dumping the dog water every chance she gets, playing in the toilet if the bathroom door is left open, rummaging in the tea drawer, drinking the washer water, etc.)--but also intensely mad if crossed (oh the toddler tantrums!)--and distraught when overtired. 


Nowadays, since Bridget has been walking confidently for a while (though she still looks a little like Frankenstein, especially when wading in irrigation water!), she has started running, jumping (and finally getting a little air!), climbing up onto furniture, and scaling ladders. (She loves to climb the rungs [nerve-wracking for me!] up to the kids' big fort and go down the big slide--it's way more exciting than her Little Tykes ladder and slide.) 

 

Bridget says "hi" and "bye" (which mostly sounds like "hi"), Dada and sometimes Mama (but usually only when desperate), occasionally an approximation of "all done," and recently "shoes." (She brings me her shoes sometimes, and takes my hand and leads me to the back door--she loves to be outside!) We've taught her some sign language. She makes a sweet "eh-uh" noise when rubbing her chest for "please"; she recently started doing the sign for "milk" when she wants to nurse, but she'll also throw herself into position on my lap and pull at my shirt now, too. She waves her hands for "all-done" and sometimes does the sign for "more." She wags her head in imitation of my "no-no!" when considering whether to do something naughty like pull a plug or empty the bookcase. I think she's attempted to say some of the kids' names--"'Siah," "Abba," and something akin to "Clara." She babbles with all sorts of noises and likes to "tell stories" with noises and laughter (and sometimes screeches). Tonight she tried saying "teeth" as Jeremy taught her to point to hers.

When I take Bridget out of her highchair after breakfast and after supper, she knows it's naptime or bedtime, so she starts waving and saying her "hi-bye" to all at the table. She also blows kisses--at request and sometimes spontaneously. Because I often say "pee-eww, stinky!" when she toots or poops, she's started pre-empting me and poking at my noise while using a high-pitched voice to approximate my exclamation. She chuckles anytime she toots, too. I nurse her before naps and bed, and she's at the stage where nursing and gymnastics combine--it's like a challenge to her to see what contortions she can perform while staying latched. 


Our poor, long-suffering dog Beatrix (new to the family in January) patiently endures and mostly tries to avoid Bridget, except at mealtime. The moment she hears me snap on Bridget's highchair tray, Beatrix stations herself near, ears up, eyes alert for the first food Bridget might drop. Bridget loves the attention and often feeds Beatrix outright, though plenty falls inadvertently. Bridget is a finnicky eater and still relies on Mama's milk to get her through the day. She's got an eagle eye for when Daddy pulls out the chips, though; woe betide the family if we all get some and neglect her! 

Back to Beatrix: Bridget loves doggie kisses and squats next to Beatrix and leans her head in for a lick whenever possible. Sometimes she chases Beatrix around and tries to grab her curly fur, though; so Beatrix is skittish around Bridget--though she's never nipped or growled at her. 

Both Bridget and Beatrix love raw carrots. Bridget spends awhile gnawing on one when I give it to her and now does a pretty good job eating a decent amount of the chunk. But she also loves to feed Beatrix, so she'll often strategically place her carrot on the ground and look expectantly toward Beatrix or even try to call her with a noise. If Beatrix doesn't come take it, Bridget will pick it back up and gnaw on it a little longer till trying again in a new spot. It's so funny to watch.


Bridget has long loved music. Even at eight months she had started swaying/"dancing" to music, and now she'll sing along with sweet sounds when we're singing, listening to music, playing piano, etc. She asks me to sing by swaying her head and making sing-song noises, often when I'm nursing her before nap or bed. She smiles with delight when I start a song, and her wide smile at the supper table when we all sing before praying is the cutest. (She also likes to hold hands with Jeremy, me, or both of us at the table.) When she sees the piano open, she makes her sing-song noises and books it over there to play the keys. She loves when one of the big kids pulls her up to sit on lap or bench and play from that vantage point. (But she screeches when they're trying to practice and keep her away from the piano keys!) 

Jeremy often turns on some sort of music after supper--Irish pub songs, folk, soundtracks (Josiah always requests Star Wars or Pirates of the Caribbean), sea shanties, etc. Bridget sways, spins, claps hands, smiles, walks backwards, tiptoes, makes circuits 'round Jeremy, and otherwise invents dance moves and is the star of the show.


Like her brother, Bridget has never been a calm or cuddly baby. But recently she started cuddling at my request--and sometimes on her own, particularly when I sing a lullaby right before she goes to bed. She lays her head on my shoulder and pats my back. It's the sweetest!





Saturday, September 26, 2020

Camping with Friends

Here are pictures from our Nikon camera from our camping trip with friends in August. We loved having the Davids camp with us! The kids got along so well, tramping through the trees, making forts, playing tag, giving piggy-back rides, etc. etc. etc. Even with the cold, rain, and hail, it was a fun weekend.









Malachi and Abby

Jax and Abby



fort building!


Flagstaff in August

Jeremy's parents graciously allowed us to stay in their house in Flagstaff while they were in Montana in August. We so enjoyed the chance to get away from the Phoenix heat. Jeremy worked most days and I did some schoolwork with the kids, but we also took some time off for a day trip to the Grand Canyon, a long weekend camping trip, and early evening hikes. 


We spent lots of time in the backyard and got several afternoon monsoon showers! The kids and I went across to the forest several times, and we also hiked with Jeremy to Elden Springs, the Elden homestead site, the crack/gap, and on other trails. 



The kids love climbing the boulders--the more challenging, the better! Even Clara kept up well with the bigger kids and scaled many a steep rock face. Here she is "riding her horse":


Abby

The kids were thrilled to find some water trickling out at Elden Springs. They set to work to clear the streambed and redirect the water where it ran into obstruction.






We originally planned to go to Whitehorse Lake campground with some friends from Phoenix during our middle weekend in Flagstaff. But all the campgrounds seem to be booked and overly busy since the pandemic. So we took Scott and Dortha's advice and went out FR151 to a beautiful area sort of to the back of the peaks. The higher elevation meant much cooler weather--and lots more weather than we bargained for! We had monsoons every afternoon, and Saturday's monsoon turned into a thunderstorm that became a pounding hailstorm. We got hail and rain all afternoon; our shade structure leaked, everyone got wet and cold and dirty, and all the girls ended up half-frozen in our tent to change and cuddle up in sleeping bags til the weather cleared. It was such a difference from the 90-degree weather we'd been having in Flagstaff!


Bridget was a happy camper overall. She had a bit of trouble sleeping in her pack'n'play in the tent, of course, but that was to be expected. Poor baby got pretty cold at night. I tried to keep a hat on her and bundled her up as well as I could, but it's always a bit of a challenge to keep the baby warm. She enjoyed playing on our mat and thankfully hadn't quite taken off with crawling yet at this point, so she was slower to get to the dirt, leaves, and pine needles on the edge. 

As you can see from the succession of pictures below, Bridget is an active baby! Most of my pictures of her include some blurry appendage . . . 





Here she is bundled against the cold:


We drove out Thursday morning (and Jeremy had scouted and claimed a campsite on Wednesday night), and our friends joined us Friday afternoon. We camped on a slope that was heavily forested with lots of deadfalls and boulders nearby. The kids had a wonderful time making fort after fort with the logs and caves and boulders. 

We took some hikes around--one back into the trees, which was hard going (so many deadfalls)--and a few up the nearby trailhead through a meadow and onto a larger meadow where the trail met the Arizona Trail and also led to Bismarck Lake (not a lake, just a dry tank). There were still a few wildflowers--some late, dying lupine; Indian paintbrush; and others I didn't know. The kids were too loud for us to spot elk or deer, but we did see a red-tailed hawk up close and some birds, including mountain bluebirds and white-breasted nuthatches. I think I saw a red-breasted nuthatch, too.

I got a few pictures of all five kids together--unintentionally color-coordinated!--just before we left the campsite on Sunday:






One of the highlights of being in Flagstaff was getting to see the relatives! We spent an afternoon with all of them, and then separately time with Emily and her boys, and Anna and her girls (and got to see Justin, too). Sadly, we didn't see James. But we did get to spend time with the newest cousin, Mia (born in June)! She's a sweetie. The girls even got to hold her. Cedar and E wanted to hold Bridget, too. She wasn't as cooperative as Mia. She really doesn't prefer to be confined. 


Clara and Mia

Cedar and our Birdie-girl

Abby and Mia

Clara and Cedar

Especially with the opportunity to spend time with cousins, our kids didn't want to return to Phoenix. Lydia in particular cried about going home for a couple days leading up to our departure. They were sad to miss Pa and Grandma, too!





We took up most of our food so as not to have to do much shopping in Flagstaff. We kept meals simpler and did a few repeats (pesto pasta with chicken sausage one week, and with salmon one week; burritos a couple times; etc.). Dortha left a couple cast iron specialty pans for us to take if we wanted, so I tried them out while there. One was an abelskiver pan, but the other we had to look up. We discovered it's a plattar pan to make Swedish plattar pancakes, which are like tiny crepes. Here's a recipe I tried and liked: https://monasterykitchen.org/swedish-plattar-pancakes/ (minus the sugar, plus a teaspoon of cinnamon). The kids gobbled them up.